Hi Niki, Thanks for your reply. They are thinking private school for secondary and are happy with our school for primary. I am hoping that they will stop worrying about the register in the future as they see that my school is supportive and helpful. I think they have only known the private system and have not had a totally favourable response with regards to additional needs. The child is making great progress and may not need to stay on the register but we can’t see in to the future. I have not yet spent much time with her, but ADHD seems likely. It does sound from what you are saying that the SEND register data would automatically go to the new school. The older child is already at a private secondary and they want them both, for whatever reason, to be at the same school.
Thanks again for all your help.